The Benefits of Chores for Kids

Chores are an excellent opportunity to teach our kids values, like family connection, giving, contribution, hard work, interdependence. They are ideal to use as a structure for building values, which is one of the many reasons that paying your child for doing chores...

The Disadvantages to Appeasing Children

There is no question about it: we all want what is best for our children. We want to see them happy and thriving with big smiles on their faces.  Often, we fall into a routine of doing everything possible to give our kids the world. But the best isn’t always what it...

Bribes Versus Rewards

Sometimes we get wrapped up in trying to get our kids to modify their behavior at whatever cost. It may seem convenient at the time however, there are long-term effects that are hard to undo. One basic rule we teach the families in our practice is: when trying to...